TWO DIVORCED GIRLS

Monday Today was the day I was forced to take the first step towards protecting myself. I had started meeting with attorneys. I had no idea what would make a good attorney and was terrified of handing over my life, our children and my financial future to someone I did not know. My friends had rallied together and got me into consults with various attorneys. A good friend of mine would check the court databases to see how many actual divorce cases they had tried in the las

Don't you dare give back that ring. Some states have different rules about whether the rings are marital property or not. Texas says that the rings are the property of the person who accepted them They aren't considered marital property upon divorce. So, don't throw it at him, walk away with it. Do a search for your state to see how the court handles engagement and wedding rings. Often they are viewed separately. Again, don't give it back - at the very least, it's half yours!

When the divorce drama starts there is usually one person who didn't see it coming and who was caught off guard. They are left on the...

Let's bring my story back around to the beginning again ... Peace for your spirit. You found it, right? You're ready to hear the next bit...

What is it about divorce that confuses men about the purpose of Child Support? It is like the minute the judge orders them to pay they...

Sunday The cycle of pain was started up again today. Mr. Genius came to get Hadley for church. Greyson wanted to stay home which meant...

Saturday Greyson and Hadley arrived home at 10 am. I could not hold them and drink in their presence enough. It was like I was on...

Friday This dreadful day will forever be etched into my memory. It was the first time he took our children to stay at his new home. A...

Breaking News! My ex-husband is still playing games. So, let's take a break from the continuing story of Harper from the beginning, and...

Thursday I did not sleep at all the previous night. It was spent sobbing on the phone with my closest and most trusted friends. My best...

It happens. The moment when you have so much going on that you can't feel anything. Y,all - I didn't know what to do. I didn't know how...

Wednesday My day started out like any other normal day. Taking the kids to school, spending the morning with my husband, Mr. Genius,...

Hi! We are Harper and Carrie. Two besties who ironically found themselves thrown into tsunami divorces within a year of each other. ...

Minutes after you find the first smoking gun, you have no idea what that even means. There is a numbness. A wonder about what just...